But of course it’s a lie, right? Because how can a porn star be raped & woman have all the power in porn. It’s that usual script that’s read by the industry about how glamorous and empowering porn is for women.
First off, Julie is now a new contributor at Mike South’s blog. She’ll write a weekly column. She’s also started her new website JulieMeadows.com where she writes about her life and her experiences in the adult industry. She started in the adult industry in 1998 and retired in 2004.
Julie’s first column for Mike was about her horrible experience working with Max Hardcore. She says he has a strange and psychotic, snaggle-toothed smile frozen on his face. She was also told by a woman who came stumbling out of Max’s bathroom that he has a small penis. Julie says the woman had dark rings around her eyes and looked only half alive.
Now about Bobby Vitale. Julie’s biography on her website says how Bobby had raped her on set. Here is her account:
Bobby Vitale, basically, raped me in a scene. He was fine all day, then just before the scene he went into the bathroom and came out a total weirdo. He wasn’t there anymore, behind his eyes, and when the scene started, I wasn’t there, to him. Hey, do what you want, but not what I don’t want when it involves me! Crazy, huh? I had never been raped in my life, but I got a glimpse, through that scene, of what it must be like. I semi-wished I’d been coked out, too, because I would have ripped his useless face off. For the most part, though, it was always a mature experience. Oh wait… Didn’t Vitale’s long time girlfriend Brianna Banks turn him into a cripple by running over him with her car? Someone told me that years ago. I actually laughed when I heard it, but only because I know he used to beat her. What a bastard!
You can also read a recent interview with Julie at LukeIsBack.
Porn Star Babylon 
Harvey Dent
July 22, 2009
The Smelly Monkey illustraded version of her Max Hardcore story is pure genius!
redgoat
July 22, 2009
“Bobby Vitale, (basically), raped me in a scene”
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
Oh please. Rape is rape. He kind of raped me or sort of raped me? He just did it!
redgoat
July 22, 2009
Did you read the link on XPT that you stole this from?? What does basically mean?
Read the last sentence. Irresponsible.
Bobby Vitale, basically, raped me in a scene. He was fine all day, then just before the scene he went into the bathroom and came out a total weirdo. He wasn’t there anymore, behind his eyes, and when the scene started, I wasn’t there, to him. Hey, do what you want, but not what I don’t want when it involves me! Crazy, huh? I had never been raped in my life, but I got a glimpse, through that scene, of what it must be like.
redgoat
July 22, 2009
Julie never said she was raped, she put basically in front, she was paid to perform a scene with bobby who got coked up before the scene and she felt like he didnt treat her as a person or something like that, theres a huge difference between that and what rape is, I wish someone would show darrah what the difference is, maybe then she would be a little more careful how she throws that word around
redgoat
July 22, 2009
That was from the XPT Thread from which you lifted and changed the context.
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
You want me to be raped? And you expect anyone to take you seriously?
I took the information from the sites I linked to. I link back to XPT all the time and would link back here. as well if it’s where I first saw it.
redgoat
July 22, 2009
You’re a fool . Last but not least, no comment , (surprisingly) about the fake “4th Of July ” pictures??
Oh, look out, here comes Harvey Dent to defend you. I guess he believes those pics are you??
Lame.
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
Many rapes happen when the man was drunk or on drugs. But a crime still happened. He wasn’t that out of it falling over himself. He was still able to maintain an erection.
redgoat
July 22, 2009
You read the posts. You cant get off of there.
Read the posts. I quoted the post.
http://www.xxxporntalk.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=monkeycage&Number=426109&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
The 4th of July post at Scott Fayner’s site was for fun. he hadn’t made a Happy 4th post yet and I thought I should. I never said those pictures were of me, Scott, and Testa. Yes I labeled the pictures as so but to make it a better post. If people believed it, then I did my job correctly.
redgoat
July 22, 2009
If you throw around the word “crime”, then why were no charges pressed?
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
I read the XPT post later in the day. I already had the Julie, Bobby story since Mike first posted her Max story. But sometimes I take a while to actually publish a post. You haven’t noticed that lots of my posts are late and old? And because of the subject matter, I was re-editing the whole damn piece.
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
Most violent crimes are never reported. Especially when it’s a porn star whose been raped by another porn star.
redgoat
July 22, 2009
The amazing thing is that you wouldn’t believe the people who sold you out and said that it wasn’t you.
You probably would be a little shocked.
There are a lot of people who are very “two-faced” here in this business and emailed me to point out the pictures.
I would love to show you that email.
redgoat
July 22, 2009
I wouldn’t bust your balls as much as I do if you actually were objective . It seems as tho ALL of the opinions you give are always anti-male.
It is your site, and you have creative control, but it just gets to be old hat.
It wouldn’t hurt to post a story and see what others think.
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
I used to post stories and let others comment. It’s called cut and paste which many complained about. Many including at XPT. So I tried writing myself.
I never once said those pictures at Scott’s site were of me, Scott, and Testa. Only the picture tags suggested it. I love it that people thought it was us. It took me a very long time to find similar looking pictures of the three of us but that didn’t show our faces obviously because it wasn’t us. I was Googling drunk girls and passed out guys/girls and lucked out with those three. Here’s a shocker. The three of us never met either!
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
Why would anyone email you about me? Seriously, you’re so full of shit. People close to me emailed you about those pictures? That’s why you never once posted this information on XPT to pewn me. lol
iwasthere
July 22, 2009
Gee, is it odd that all your opinions are anti-female, redgoat? Back to XPT for you, dude.
redgoat
July 22, 2009
I never post emails or PMs. Never.
Even I have some ethics.
Even on here you do not post email addys, and to fuck with someone, you could.
redgoat
July 22, 2009
All my opinions are not anti-female.
It just happens that this is a female -dominated industry, and people like Darrah and Desi Foxx can’t just learn to accept that these girls make their own choices, like all of us. No one is keeping them here.
And, you always poke your ugly head in here to kiss her ass. I’m going to rush right over back to XPT because you told me so.
I hadn’t even looked at this site until Darrah used an alt on XPT and TRIED to fuck with me.
That alt does not post there anymore.
Wonder why??
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
I’ve never posted an email message here unless I asked first if I could post the email message.
I’m not anti men. I just support women first for obvious reasons. And since so much harm is inflicted on female porn stars, I get angry a lot here against the men in the industry.
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
BWAUHAHAHAHAHA
Oh for crying out loud. The guy who invented the microwave isn’t me you dolt!
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
In case anyone is wondering what pictures we’re talking about. I didn’t post these here because as I said before, I didn’t know if people here knows who Testa is.
http://scottfayner.com/?p=1777
redgoat
July 22, 2009
Those posts weren’t coming from a town that starts with a “C”????
redgoat
July 22, 2009
Amazing how you knew who I was talking about.
Any more petitions to get me removed as a mod??
Do you think XPT is a Democracy??
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
Which posts and what C?
I knew what you were talking about because I do read the forum as much as I can. Didn’t I say I link back to XPT a lot?
Darrah Ford
July 22, 2009
Oh, I don’t want this to end up in another 100 comment post. So I’m ending this now and I have to make breakfast soon. We both don’t like each other though your hatred of me is purely for what I write. Agree to disagree. Now leave me alone.
Harvey Dent
July 22, 2009
“It just happens that this is a female -dominated industry, and people like Darrah and Desi Foxx can’t just learn to accept that these girls make their own choices, like all of us. No one is keeping them here.”
Bullshit, the sex industry and specially porn might be run by females but is dominated by men. And while none is pulling a gun to the heads of the women and forcing them to stay, many go into de industry not because they love sex as the men that dominate the industry but becasue they feel that cannot do anything else, and more often that ever, those women appear to be mentally ill. As a XPTer you should know that, you make fun of that every day. While I have not seen the data of porn becasue they are not studies, the ranges of mental illness among strippers and prostitutes in the US are around 70%, and about 30% are seriously mentally ill. I doubt Porn girls are any different. Probably higher if you read their missadventures.
So while they do consent to be in the industry, their concents have a doubt, they are not in full control of their mental faculties, they are not like civilians, and of course they can not evaluate their risk in the same manner we do. That is a fact that is often ignored by the industry. I hope that the comming storm over HIV protection will blow the lid on that. I know about the class action on HIV and I know about future class actions on mental grounds that will go ahead if the ones on STDs prosper.
Change is coming to the industry, we like it or not.
And Redgoat, while I suspected the photos were a Fayner joke, I supect Darrah is not as ignorant of the industry ans she tries to show she is.
You know what my suspicions of Darrah are, but unlike you I do not waste my time playing Nancy Drew and just play the game.
Don Houston
July 22, 2009
“I’m not anti men. I just support women first for obvious reasons. And since so much harm is inflicted on female porn stars, I get angry a lot here against the men in the industry.”
Yes, and your anger often leads to emotional outbursts regardless of the facts (which you admittedly don’t typically have access to). That’s okay though; anyone reading here can just accept your biases as being pro-women/anti-men. 😉
In terms of the story, I’ve had Julie in my lap so my own biases are pro-Julie. She wasn’t raped on that scene (she consented to having sex with him, cashed the check, and moved on with her life) but I sympathize with her for having a bad experience; not completely rare in porn.
Don Houston
July 22, 2009
Harvey, I am fond of a number of people in the industry, some of whom have gotten a raw deal in life while others are not part of the “in” crowd at the moment. That said, most of the performers in porn are there because they wanted quick money, big quick money at that, without developing the requisite skills to acquire a socially acceptable position/profession.
I’ve been regaled with the “I worked at Starbucks for minimum wage” stories for over ten years now and frankly, it takes some degree of work to find what most call an honest living. Were you to require psychological screening for performers to work in the industry, they’d be on welfare in a heartbeat or at least engaged in criminal activities since making big money right out of high school is pretty rare these days.
Harvey Dent
July 22, 2009
“That said, most of the performers in porn are there because they wanted quick money, big quick money at that, without developing the requisite skills to acquire a socially acceptable position/profession.”
That is true, the sex industry and not just porn employs the unemploayble, but the problem is that the reasons they do not want to develop the skills for socially aceptable job vary. Some people are just lazy, some people are mentally ill.
That is were I find the moral problem, the mentally ill ones will not get better in the sex industry and often end back into welfare or crime in the end anyways and in a far worse shape to get them back of that life.
tattypattyagain
July 29, 2009
Max Hardcore: American fucking HERO
Natal
July 29, 2009
“Bobby Vitale, (basically), raped me in a scene”
“Oh please. Rape is rape. He kind of raped me or sort of raped me? He just did it!:
Darrah, what she appears to be saying is that he came out of the room “different” and went through the scene without bothering with the niceties. By my reading she didn’t say that it was a real rape, just that it was how she imagined a real rape would feel. That is why she included the qualification “(basically)”. There is no other reason to add a qualification to the statement.