Opinion/Editorial
It seems when Jayden got her 15 seconds of fame after being featured on an MTV special, all this sudden new “fame” got to her head and now she thinks she’s someone special. Or has she always thought so highly of herself? Sorry to inform you honey but myself and others that I know were watching that special because Shelley Lubben was on it. Most didn’t even know who you are.
Last month, Jayden went on a rant on the Brazzers forum against pornstar escorts and how they’re all spreading disease and she wanted to retire because she didn’t want to be a part of it anymore. I didn’t post this here because after several re-writes, I just gave up on it because it was turning out to be real mean. Yes I know it’s shocking that I was trying to not be mean.
I’ve never heard a single good thing about this girl. She goes on and on about how everyone is out to get her and she’s never at fault for anything. Even I know why people hate me. If you’re that oblivious to the fact that you’re a psychotic bitch, you need some serious therapy and step the hell off that pedestal you’ve put yourself on.
She was upset she didn’t win the AVN Award for Best New Starlet and was upset a contract girl (Stoya) had won it. She then announced she was retiring and many said it was because of her not winning that AVN Award. She goes on and on about retiring and blaming dirty hookers and everyone is out to get her. But then later says she’s not retiring but will just be doing her own thing instead of working for others. So the cry for attention backfired and she had to announce she wasn’t retiring after all.
She then brags how she hadn’t had sex yet with her new boyfriend after three weeks. I don’t know why she would bring that up because many would then say she has sex with strangers on camera after only knowing them for five minutes. If her new boyfriend paid her, would she then have sex with him? But she thinks very highly of herself and looks down on the real stars in this industry because she will never achieve the level of fame what they have or make as much money as they have.
Why is sex with a stranger on camera for money any different than sex with a stranger behind closed doors for money? She claims that these “hookers” don’t use condoms while she has that silly little AIM test that only tests for HIV, Chlamydia, and Gonorrhea. That’s it! I believe Europe tests for more STDs than the United States. Most escorts and their clients insist on using condoms. Which means most escorts are healthier than most porn stars.
Some of the biggest female porn stars do escort and have for decades. She shouldn’t be jealous and hate them for being able to command more money than she can. She says what she does is a job and she shows up, turns into a nympho for the camera, and then goes home. What exactly does she think escorts do? They show up to their job, turn into a nympho, and then go home.
Jayden says the industry is filled with hookers trying to legitimize themselves by doing it on camera. She says she doesn’t have sex with the directors and producers, doesn’t go to lame porn parties, and she doesn’t drink and do drugs. YOU will eventually. Trust me on that.
Now thank you to the person who sent this in to me, The Erotic Review clearly shows that Jayden Jaymes is also an escort and the same dirty hooker she attacks the real porn stars for being!
Her breakdown on the Brazzers forum is also after the jump.
** Last time I checked Jayden was available…
Yet she criticizes Rachel Starr and other women in the industry for doing what she does?
Interesting.
** “. . . and the going rate for porn girls is “a couple of hunderd bucks”
She is at ground zero. I guess she’d know.
** Nonetheless, Jayden’s got a big mouth on her, I chalk it up to immaturity and dellusions of grandeur because she’s fucked a few celebrities and she loves attention and drama. She’ll be back in the business once she cools down and cash flow runs low. Mark my words.
** She will be turning tricks
Once she stops getting calls or when her expenses get too high..
I saw her on MTV on Saturday on a show called “I am a sex addict”..She was crying that she did not get some AVN award and the fact that if she won it her family would accept her..
$100 bucks says she will be on this board within a year advertising to Johns and Tricks like us!
** The 3/24/09 post on this very message board from The Sexy Secret lists her as available in Miami.
** Hypocrisy from Ms Jayden
Now if this ain’t the case of the pot calling the kettle black. She is listed on a pornstar escort site, and not even UTR, but she downs other folks who are doing the same thing.
Pornstars who act like their shit don’t stink tend not to last very long in this business, as there is always a new crop of girls that will replace you in a heartbeat.
And she goes on about lame pornstar parties, when she actively promotes these parties herself.
What a shame. I thought she had potential.
** A generic big-titty brunette with an over-sized tattoo out of rotation — how will the industry every survive!
LOL
** Just looking for her 15 minutes of mainstream fame
We’ve seen it before and we’ll see it again. She knows the game and she knows what is true and what is not. She just feels compelled to give good material to insure she gets face and print time at whomever’s expense. By taking the “high road”, she has compromised her credibility, IMO.
Yawn!
** Just looking for her 15 minutes of mainstream fame
She’s all over YouTube bitching about how nobody in the industry likes her…. I wonder why???
** A few observations…
So being a pornstar is a job… so is being a Mafia hit-man. The fact that you get paid to kill someone doesn’t legitimatize it or make it any better than someone who kills out of passion or mental illness.
To think that fucking a stranger in front of a camera is self-expression or art, or that it’s any better than escorting, is delusional. If Jayden’s point was that she doesn’t hit the bars every night to pick up a stranger for a one-night stand, then she has a valid point. But to say an adult performer who doesn’t esort is somehow better than one who does is just holier-than-thou bullshit.
Also, she’s mis-informed about a few other points.
Most girls who get into the adult industry weren’t “whores”, to use her expression, before becoming adult talent. It was after they became starlets that they realized that as a pornstar they could make substantially more than “two or three hundred dollars” to escort. Their porn stardom MADE escorting financially appealing, especially in light of the current economic state of the industry.
And finally, the claim that the PSEs are fucking clients indiscriminently without using condoms and bringing disease into the industry is absurd. While we all know that unprotected intercourse does occur, when it does the great majority of PSEs insist on seeing valid and current tests, just like they do in the industry. The fact is that the great majority of the general population leads a much lower risk lifestyle than the male talent in the porn. While HIV is closely monitored in the porn biz, the incidence of non-leathal STDs is much higher in the industry than it is in the public arena. It’s the MALE talent who are bringing STDs to the industry, not the clients of PSEs.
Bottom line, Jayden should stick to fucking on camera and leave the pontification to someone who’s a little more informed than she is.
I love when y’all THINK you know me.
I tried to ignore it, but I’ve gotta put it out there.
You’re right… I do what I can to please the fans and they’re usually happy. The only time I ‘piss them off’ is when they disrespect me. I put them in their place when needed. Regardless of a person’s job, they deserve respect.
As far as pissing off ‘co-stars, directors and producers’… Ha! I’m always nice to people on set. And, if I don’t know people, I usually keep quiet. Co-stars end up hating me because I say what others think: she gave a bad performance, her hygiene is horrible, etc. I’ve never been a bitch just to be a bitch. Yes, it’s in my blood, but I give everyone a chance! As for directors and producers… funny, cuz most of my friends in this biz are directors and producers. The ones that hate me are the ones that have tried to push me around (like they do the other girls) and (unlike the other girls) I stand up for myself. If the guy’s being a jackass, I tell him to fuck off. Bitchy? Maybe. But, once again, it’s about respect.
I am not leaving because I didn’t get the AVN. If that were the case, do you think I would’ve left WHEN I didn’t get it? I want to retire from performing because I’ve been around for 2 1/2 years and I’m tired! I actually have plans beyond fucking and I’m working really hard on these projects. Plus, (my number one reason) most of the girls (I’d say 90%) are escorts. They’re worse than the guys. They’re just dirty. Girls are doing guys outside the biz that aren’t tested, without condoms, because they were offered a couple hundred bucks, and that spread diseases! I don’t want to put myself in that position anymore. This industry is a bunch of fucking hookers trying to legitimize themselves by doing it on camera. (Now THAT would qualify as ‘pissing off co-stars.)
So, what about those like me? I don’t escort. I don’t blow directors/producers. I actually want to take advantage of the business aspect of the industry and make some real money! Is it ‘bitchy’ of me to push myself to succeed and not let any of the assholes stand in my way? Maybe. But a good business woman is always considered a bitch. If that’s the reputation I get for standing up for myself and not being a whore, so be it.
And for those who want to go the whole “You fuck on camera for money, you ARE a whore’ route… Really?! Ever hear of a JOB? I show up, turn into a nympho for the camera, and go home. If you ever met me outside of a set, I’m in sweats with no makeup on. I don’t flaunt what I do. I have a good time, but it’s not about sex for me. I don’t drop my panties for anyone. I’ve been dating a guy for three weeks and still haven’t slept with him! What I do is a job, and it’s just that. I treat it as a job and not a party, like most. I make my money and get out. I’m not at lame porn parties, getting drunk, doing blow, hooking up in the bathroom and getting caught up in the drama like the rest. Bitchy?
And the whole Rachel thing. I’ll admit, I take it kinda far, but I really don’t like her. I’m not trying to hurt her career or mine or anything. I actually used to like her. She started dating my ex, we did a scene together, and she was nice. I was actually happy he was in good hands. But, when I hear that they split and she’s now escorting… Really?! You move in on my life and my man and take everything from me, and it turns out that you’re just another hooker?! THAT pisses me off. Yes, he’s at fault, too. I know. I don’t want him back. But I just don’t like hookers. (Once again, the number one reason I’m through with performing.)
Call me a fucking cunt, I really don’t care. Just know exactly what you’re referring to.
Porn Star Babylon 
Don Houston
May 6, 2009
I don’t know Jayden outside of her performances so I’m not defending her but your assumptions regarding condoms, escorts (performer or not), and diseases are not well supported by clinical data.
Further, unless you “hire” Jayden and have first hand knowledge that she is hooking, basing the likelihood that she is doing so because someone posted a picture of her on Craigslist or some anonymous schmuck said he fucked her is kind of lame.
And yes, there is an elevated risk of spreading disease when you start having sex outside of a limited pool of people, regardless of testing.
Darrah Ford
May 6, 2009
But using a condom will protect you more. Regardless if you don’t use a condom but you’re tested everyday. I wouldn’t have sex with anyone without a condom regardless if he sent me an AIM test every single day for a month. And I always hear most escorts and their clients will not go any further without a condom.
But The Erotic Review is where the hobbyists go to critique the escorts. Are they all lying about Jayden?
But she’s completely wrong to have this elitist attitude towards the others in porn who escort when many of the biggest names to the not so big names escort.
Don Houston
May 6, 2009
“And I always hear most escorts and their clients will not go any further without a condom.”
Do I have a bridge to sell you… sheesh!
“But The Erotic Review is where the hobbyists go to critique the escorts. Are they all lying about Jayden?”
The popular saying you love so much, “whores lie”, applies to “hobbyists” too. It might be true or it might not but by stating it as fact you invite the scrutiny of those that read your comments (and yes, Jayden could find it actionable). I remember reading all about how Jenna Jameson could be had for a few hundred bucks too by some of those hobbyists, would you believe them sight unseen?
Escorting is a personal choice and like all other choices, there are those that would differentiate degrees of “whoredom”. Some think you’re a whore if you strip, others think handjobs for customers meets the criteria, others suggest what someone wears determines it, and still others think anyone that fucks on camera for a living qualifies.
One thing is for certain, escorting qualifies to pretty much everyone I’ve talked to and while I won’t take a moral stance on the act here, the more people you screw that are not tested, the greater your chances are for catching more diseases regardless of protection (look it up).
Harvey Dent
May 6, 2009
Don, I do not think so. The Doctor who designed the testing for the condom only bordellos in Nevada is very critical of how the Cali porn industry is run.
He said that the Cali porn industry acts from a epidemiological POV as a reservoir of STDs that spread to the general population is SOCAl.
As a reformer whoremonger I only have met two escorts that let me fuck them without a condom. Most porn stars fuck without condoms all the time. They often get reinfected by the same people over and over again.
So porn stars on the average are lest healtier that comparable high end civilian escorts by far.
“the more people you screw that are not tested, the greater your chances are for catching more diseases regardless of protection (look it up).”
That is not true. I have lived in countries with legal prostitution and they are often healthier than civilian women. They are condom only and get tested weekly for non deadly STDs and monthly for AIDs.
Protection matters.
Don Houston
May 6, 2009
While I think the “doctor who designed the testing for the condom only bordellos in Nevada” has a personal bias in the matter, my point is that condoms need to be used correctly and perfectly to work, precluding oral sex at that. I’ll take you word for it that the hookers you associated with usually required condoms but the same would hold true of the porn performers that I’ve known carried (and used) condoms when escorting. I don’t know most porn “stars” (performers, to split semantic hairs) or have first hand knowledge of all their sex lives, but I shy away from hookers, especially in Houston, LA, Atlanta, NYC and other major metropolitan areas due to the much higher than average rate of AIDS (www.cdc.gov has plenty of statistics backing that up).
Compare that to the handful of AIDS cases in the domestic porn industry over the years (the straight industry at least). I’m not belittling protection in general, only saying it is not a panacea in the US due to all sorts of issues.
And if my quote seems wrong, let me revise it for you just a touch: “the more people you screw, the greater your chances are for catching more diseases”. I’d suggest that those hookers you visited in other countries had greater access to medicine, food, and other money related benefits of “working” than the general populace (at least in the Third and Second World countries that comprise the majority of the world’s population). That they are eating regular meals elevates their immune system and their diseases are treated much more quickly due to regular testing (much like performers get).
Testing helps people treat the majority of STDs before they become a problem and condoms certainly REDUCE the chances of catching something if you engage in specific behaviors but there is a valid argument that hooking increases the chances of contracting an STD.
Kendall
May 6, 2009
Doesn’t the total lack of STD outbreaks in Nevada brothels make a pretty convincing argument for condoms?
In New Zealand prostitution is legal as long as condoms are used. From what I’ve read their hooker population is pretty healthy, at least when you look at girls who aren’t also intravenous drug users. Looking at some STD stats, the outbreaks have mainly been in the gay community, not spread by female prostitutes.
New Zealand obviously isn’t America, but it isn’t a third world country either.
The thing that gets me is that so many johns want to have unprotected sex with hookers. Guys offering extra money for the privilege or slipping off the condom half way though. I doubt many prostitutes go out of their way to risk their health like that.
This kiwi hooker had her john arrested for trying that shit.
iwasthere
May 6, 2009
Jayden has severe self esteem issues and is very insecure. Hopefully, some day, she grows up and accepts herself, warts and all.
Harvey Dent
May 7, 2009
“warts and all.”
Tell us more…………
Rob Taylor
May 7, 2009
In NZ why should it matter if condoms are used. You either believe two people can choose to participate in a hooker/john relationship or not. Why should the state mandate their behavior? You have sex with hookers, you assume the risk.
I’ve had about 10 condoms break during my life, and frankly since I married my high school sweetheart and don’t cheat I’ve only used them about 40 times. If you’re having sex with hookers nothing is really “safe” and that’s pretty much the point right?
Kendall
May 7, 2009
I think New Zealand’s condom law was mainly to appease the people who’d argued that legal prostitution would be a public health disaster. Even libertarian types are often a bit queasy at the thought of totally unregulated hooking. That’s what killed Proposition K – the recent attempt to decriminalise prostitution in San Francisco.
From what I’ve read the NZ prostitutes themselves supported the bareback ban; they’d complained about the number of johns insisting on going condom free. As it is a hooker who doesn’t want to take the risk has the law on her side.
kouadio
May 8, 2011
idk what s the problem i think she said she doesnt like when pornstar do escort but i have seen video of jayden fuckin random dudes fans etc.. too that are not pornstar so she does escort too and she doesnt wear condoms but anyway all porstar have desease
RapistJoe
February 24, 2012
Wow…you guys are arguing over a pornstars opinion. I think you herped so hard you derped.