Alisandra has also worked under the name Alex Monroe and has been in the adult industry for 15 years. She’s 33-years-old and currently married to a 20-year-old who was also arrested. They were both arrested last week and are now free on $50,000 bond and face up to ten years in prison.
Alisandra owns the West Virginia strip club and either she or her husband Brett hired the girl after the girl provided an ID showing her date of birth as May 1991. But Alisandra denies everything on her Myspace blog and blames everyone else around her:
Friday, March 27, 2009
club venus…legal issues…etc…
As many of you know, i had a former dj that went to the abcc, the media, the newspaper, and other legal bodies to give false allegations that i allowed a 17 year old girl to work for me. i want to say, my husband and i are innocent. This girl used a fake ID when she came in with her 19 year old boyfriend. I have hired the best attorney in town. our lives have been devastated.
my son was taken from me and is staying with his father. my income has been tremendously affected. we have been arrested and humiliated. We intend on proving our innocence. I hear that this was all done as a vindictive move because i supposedly got involved with his personal issues between him and him former girlfriend. Let me tell you that between going to school Monday thru Thursday, taking care of my son and home, running errands for my business and studying for my tests, i have no extra time to bother with other people’s personal problems.
Whatever decisions they make are their own. I stayed out of it. The other person involved, was also being vindictive. He punched a man in my parking lot and because i dont tolerate violence in my establishment, i told him he couldnt come back. This is why all of this has come about. two pissed off immature kids. It makes me so angry that they can get away with all this. my child has been crying to come back home. he doesnt understand why he cant see or talk to me. My husband and i cant eat or sleep and my business has been torn apart.
I would like to request the support from our loyal patrons and friends. If you come to the club and there is any information that you can offer that might help us please write a statement. We are praying every day and night and trying to believe that truth and justice will prevail. We are trying to stay positive.
The bar is open and we do not serve liqour at this time. $15 cover and complimentary beer with a wide selection. Please show your support for us and spread the word. I will be performing this weekend and the girls are doing some big shows like oil wrestling, jello wrestling, bath, candle, and fire shows….we have increased the entertainment value. please keep me and my family in your prayers.
frog
March 29, 2009
This girl is just being a drama queen. She isn’t professional enough to know this is a really bad way to represent herself publicly. The only 2 problems she’s got is legal costs and custody battle. Which are serious problems, but she throws a few more in there like “our business has been torn apart!”. People will give you sympathy, but not when you run around exaggerating and acting like you’re helpless.
It’s very well possible the underage stripper gave her a fake-ID. It’s not like with the economy, there’s a shortage of strippers. Don’t know what her motivation would be to knowingly hire someone underage.
The “big shows” sound hot. At least she did that much right.
sinlinlin
March 29, 2009
http://tineye.com/search/1437cc32d40aef617a324be83a6e9c5160cbaa56
Your myspace pics were stolen from these 295 sites
sinlinlin
March 29, 2009
You’re not in California, you are in *****. Remember all of those cold winters you wrote about on XPT??
Darrah Ford
March 29, 2009
Of course that picture isn’t me. Did I suddenly sprout angel wings?
Darrah Ford
March 29, 2009
So what brought you back here to bug me anyway?
sinlinlin
March 29, 2009
Just reading about your whining on ADT.
But, you did just censor my post about where you are from.
frog
March 29, 2009
Hey, sinlinlin is back!
frog
March 29, 2009
Maybe those 295 sites stole the image from Darrah?
Harvey Dent
March 29, 2009
Hey **** , do you have a crush on a fellow Yankee?
iwasthere
March 30, 2009
Alisandra is probably trying to relive some lost youth by hanging out with people not even old enough to by alcohol. Sad that it cost her so much.
sinlinlin
March 30, 2009
I do not understand the question….
frog
March 30, 2009
What question is that?
Darrah Ford
March 30, 2009
Just like how I censored Harvey with the name he used to either you or Frog. It’s personal, private, or may not even be true.
Alex Monroe
March 31, 2009
I want to tell people that this was posted as my personal blog that depicts my feelings and is my personal way of journaling. As of Tuesday, my bar will shut its doors. And yes, it is a very real issue for me that i have no income at this point. I do not have a custody battle. I have 100% custody of my son, he just has to stay with his father who lives 25 minutes one way from his school. I am not allowed contact with him or anyone under 18 till this matter is cleared. She did use a fake id to get into the bar as a patron. on several occassions. It is a shame that kids do this all the time and dont think about the consequences. I have a very good reputation for running the cleanest club around and having strict rules. As far as hanging out with young people, i dont. My husband is the first younger man i have ever had a relationship with. He is the best relationship i have ever had and is very mature for his age. I would think that people would have some sympathy for someone that was wronged and tricked and harrassed despite what they do for a living. My husband and i had an exit plan out of this industry and wanted a normal life. It was going to take 2 years for me to finish my degree and be able to pursue a new life with my family. Please consider the one sided sources of media information when judging people.
frog
March 31, 2009
Thanks for chiming in Alex. I assume you mean your blog isn’t for professional marketing purposes when you say it’s your personal blog. Which is understandable. The mix between public/private gets so confused with the internet. And, much like your blog has an aim of being personal, this blog has an aim of being consumed with rumor mongering. People who know it take it with a grain of salt. You just kind of weed the truth out of it here and there. Note that there’s another post Darrah made where there’s a heated debate going as to whether or not kids should be allowed to be on some show that was on Shotwime. Note that none of the people arguing, including myself, have ever seen that show. It’s all rumor mongering.
But, anyone who can clear things up is always appreciated.
I guess I thought the bar was still open because you mentioned all the shows going on at the bar. But, I guess that’s more a going away party than just regular promotions to stir up business. It’s still a really great idea.
Best of luck clearing this latest obstacle life has thrown at you. It really does sound like a mess.
Those are some really nice cans in the picture at the top to the right. They are gorgeous.
sinlinlin
March 31, 2009
Just like how I censored Harvey with the name he used to either you or Frog. It’s personal, private, or may not even be true.
I do not mind being called by my first name. I just do not understand what he meant , if he was talikng to me, the Yankee question.
iwasthere
March 31, 2009
She did use a fake id to get into the bar as a patron. on several occassions.
There is a vast difference between that and hiring someone underage to work in an adult establishment. Adult establishments are usually FBI like in establishing that employees are truly of age to work in their establishments. Was this girl someone you and your husband shared as a sexual partner? She had to be someone close in order for you not to doublecheck that she was of age before hiring her. If you aren’t willing to run a tight ship with employees, you will lose your shirt no matter what type of business you are running.
Darrah Ford
April 2, 2009
Thank you for the comment. I made a new update with your comment:
http://pornstarbabylon.wordpress.com/2009/04/02/alisandra-monroe-update-losing-her-club-but-gets-her-son-back/
Darrah Ford
April 2, 2009
sinlinlin, I think Harvey was talking to you asking if you had a crush on me because I don’t think Frog lives on the East coast.
Mike
October 26, 2009
I for one hope there is a glorious return to porn in Alex’s future. It’s glorious.
an oldfriend
November 17, 2009
Hey alexi dont knowte whole story or if you remeber me. i ued tohang at the club alot. Im sorryabout wht is haping with you and you family. i hope the best for you. I knowat you would never have knowingly hired an underage girl infact the big reason that i hung out there is because you have mrals and sis not allow trashy buisness in your establishment. to the best of yur ability. u like some of the other clubs around the area where $50 bucks could get yu some oral pleasure. so good luck andi hope to see you all soon.
Alex Monroe
January 6, 2010
Thanks “old Friend”. almost a year later and at my lowest financial hardship i have ever been in, i am still waiting to an ending to this issue. my husband’s charges were dismissed at the preliminary. I will know more about what will happen to me tomorrow. Currently we are working two jobs each and in school full time. i will be graduating with honors with a criminal justice degree in may. i have also applied to nursing school and will hopefully start in august. i guess the criminal justice industry has left a bad taste in my mouth with how corrupt and manipulative it really can be. I would only have one more year to have an RN degree. I have retired from porn and have no intentions of reopening another bar. I am looking for a normal life and i will endure my alotted hardships until i reach my life’s destination. I miss all my old patrons as we had many that were really great people and good friends. i have tried to keep in touch and keep people updated via myspace. To all those who have shown their support, we thank you. From the bottom of our hearts, have a blessed 2010!
Darrah Ford
January 9, 2010
Thank you for the update!
Erasmus
January 31, 2010
Now the test will be if the stresses and money troubles push you back into the business you’re striving to get out of, or will you persevere. Your best bet is to keep your head down and finish your studies. Sometimes the best revenge is a life well lived. Good luck.
Alisandra Monroe
April 21, 2010
It is now exactly 13 months since our arrest. we have been working so hard to stay afloat financially. However, 6 weeks ago, my husband left me. I think it was the stress and all the pressure of this case coming to a head. I believe he shared some resentment towards me in some way. His brother was my manager. He was the man at the door as well. He checked her ID and she also showed the ID that she used to two other employees. However, in order to play it safe, we accepted the plea bargain to plea to a misdemeanor of contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Although we would rather fight the charges all together, i have my son to think about, as well as my future. Fighting the charges at trial could result in being found guilty and sentenced to 10 yrs in jail. I have officially lost everything except my son. I have been working a menial job and now that i am down to a one person income, the answer is yes to the above question. To a degree, i will re-enter the adult industry. I will not be doing adult films. I havent figured out anything concrete yet, but i will definitely have togo back to something. I am trying to hold out as long as i can and try to live off of student loans. I graduate in may with honors in criminal justice and i have been accepted into the accelerated nursing program and hope to pursue a career as a surgical nurse. My husband leaving was the icing on the cake. i am working every day to try to keep it together. I have been emotionally ripped apart.
By the way, i did review the tape of the girl doing a dance. There was absolutely no touching between her or the patron. It was the cleanest dance i had ever seen. It is clear in the security tape that the patron reached forward to rub her pregnant belly as it looked as if they were talking about the baby kicking. Only in WV right? What a freakin hillbilly this girl was……she is pathetic. Her own father is writing a letter to the judge on my behalf and has even had a conversation with one of my witnesses stating that he knows his daughter is a wolf in sheep’s clothing.
What i find so terrible, is that a group of people can conspire to shut a business down, and totally destroy the life of someone and feel absolutely no remorse for their lie.
That is a grave in justice within our system that i can only hope the new generation of criminal justice students can help to clean up.
Darrah Ford
April 22, 2010
Thank you for the reply! I made a new update:
http://pornstarbabylon.wordpress.com/2010/04/22/an-update-on-alisandra-monroes-court-case/
bill
August 29, 2010
Sorry, about this horrific event. I am a fan of your movies. You seem so genuine and honest. I hope things work out good for you. Also sorry to hear about your husband leaving you. I guess he wasn’t in it for the good and BAD times. I’ll say a prayer for you. Stay strong beautiful.
nuccle
February 16, 2011
Hi Alisandra,
It sounds like you’ve been through a real nightmare.
I hope things work out for you, I’m sure they will in the end.
arealbitch
May 15, 2011
This broad is a whore naturally she fucks anything that walks. She complains about pregnant people cause that’s what she desperately wanted but no one was dumb enough to knock her up except for her sons dad which im sure was an accident. She always wants pitty and might I add her new partner is in his 20s. Shes a liar… but oh well shes gonna burn in hell shell be charcoal. Id drop and say my prayers little lady. Her husband left her cause she is psycho. Hopefully get airbags she has as boons protect get ass when she gets what she has coming to her. Maybe you should wear a seatbelt! !!” Anyone whom knows this whore knows every bit of this is true .. so Alex go to hell enjoy it its where you belong.
arealbitch
May 15, 2011
* hopefully those airbags you have as breast protect you when you get what you have coming …
- correction made sorry guys
Darrah Ford
May 19, 2011
Are you against her for being a porn star? Then why are you on a porn blog then? Or are you against her because of the charges? She wasn’t the one checking IDs. The responsibility with that falls on the others who didn’t do their job, not her.
Anonymous
August 8, 2011
I swear arealbitch is just jealous because she is nowhere near as hot or ever will be as Alex. It also wouldn’t surprise me either if she is just picking on the traits that Alex has because she is the one who wants them. You should have some sympathy for those have been hard done by.
Rocky Priapus
August 13, 2011
I wonder if Ms. Alisandra Monroe has ever read ‘the Life and Death of a Porn Star’ by Earl Swift about the late Rebecca Steele(1962-2004) and where she stands on animnal crush videos by ‘Pit Boss’ Stevens of Pittsville, VA!!!